- Also: miscarriage
- Also: spontaneous abortion
- Also: early pregnancy loss
What it is
Miscarriage, or pregnancy loss before 20 weeks, is a deeply personal and often unexpected experience that affects a significant number of pregnancies. While roughly 10–20% of known pregnancies end in miscarriage, research suggests it's closer to half of all conceptions. It's important to understand that over 80% of these losses occur in the first trimester, and the vast majority are caused by chromosomal abnormalities that are simply incompatible with healthy development. This means the loss is almost always due to factors entirely outside of your control, not anything you did or didn't do.
What it tends to feel like
Experiencing a pregnancy loss can bring a wide range of emotions, and every person's experience is unique. Grief is a valid and natural response, and there is no "right" timeline or way to process it. You might feel sadness, anger, confusion, or a profound sense of loss. It's common to question what happened, even when the evidence points to natural causes. Remember, your feelings are valid, and allowing yourself space to grieve is an important part of healing. Mental health support is a crucial component of comprehensive care during this time, and your care team can help you connect with resources.

